Women, Mothers and Planet Earth

The hypothesis that woman must lead to safe Planet Earth is very tempting. Who are women and how can they lead?

As a man trying to describe women is daring, and I am ready to take the challenge, being open for negative and positive critiques from both sexes.

It is my opinion that all women are beautiful by nature. Women are patient, caring. They incorporate Mother Earth. From the men’s seeds planted in the woman’s body, new and marvelous life is created. Women carrying and giving birth to our children, in a repeating and alternate cycle between death and rebirth.

I know little about women. They are wonderful by nature, with their beautiful and attractive bodies, sensual eyes and lips, their wonderful hair, the way they move and express tenderness, love and sensuality.

Is there a side of their selves, which women abject (Julia Kristeva)? Is it because women are victimized through the dominating, possessive and repressive behavior of men? Men used and abused women, using violence, humiliation. Systematic rape is used by men at war and against religion, causing women to become subject of social exclusion and carrying diseases such as HIV. Is this the reason why women feel abjection?

Violence generates violence. Violent men cause violent men. If through women, this element of violence can be substituted, there is a chance that our world can improve. Women need to be encouraged, supported and promoted. They have all the virtues and characteristics that all human beings should acknowledge and appreciate.

It is time for women to stand up, fully in confidence of their mother body, their beauty and intelligence and lead the world’s population and our planet to salvation.

Women have the potential to give love to men, who show respect and give in return their love and appreciation for what women stand for. Women procreate, love and take care of our children and our future generations.

Man in my view has a crucial role, unless women contradict this view, in giving the seed to new life. I see man as the gardener, who takes care of his woman and loved one and carefully cultivates all aspects of that relationship, love and woman, cultivating her senses and feelings, fully using his potential for love and empathy.

I heard that women compete against women. Which is from my view a perfectly comprehensible behavior and process: women need to attract, they need to show-off, to signalize that they are receptive towards men. Women need to attract, looking for potent and strong men, they can rely on for at least to give birth to and care for their children. There is a man for each woman, still competition for attraction and selection can be quite fierce. Therefore women should not feel guilty of their competitive behavior. This behavior is perfectly natural and legitimate. And as a man, it is very pleasing to become part of this “game” of seduction.

It is part of life. There is no abjection to it, it is pure, not sin, it is complex, it is love. Should there be limitations or taboos? I am quite liberal in that regard, yet emphasizing the precautionary measures that need to be taken to prevent infection through fatal diseases such as HIV.

Love is healing, it is necessary, it strengthens our bodies and immune system. Love is full of positive energy, sensual and sexual aura. Love is not more and not less than the most intimate fusion of man and woman, healing force reinforcing the confidence of self and the other, the highest art for creating enduring joy and happiness.

Whatever stage of your relationship, love is legitimate at any stage, since it has this strong healing due to the fact, that man and woman come again together in fusion of their bodies, feeling the other’s skin, the intimate areas and the love of the other, in penetrating and exploring each other’s most intimate, sensitive and erotic belongings of one’s own.

In doing so, women, all embodying mother Earth, nourish their fertile ovum to give birth to new life. Women can be proud of their bearing, of creating new life, they can be proud of what nature has provided them.

What about the women who are hunted, raped, destroyed, their children taken away and killed. Give them the arms and power they need to fight for their legitimate self-defense.

To come back to our hypothesis: why are women better placed to care about and safe Planet Earth?

An experiment in evolution psychology at Florida State University (Elaine Hatfield & Russell Clark, 1989) included young male and female students who asked students on the campus of their opposite sex whether they want to go to bed that same evening. Male students replied to their female counterpart 75% with yes, 25% asked whether it is possible to do it another evening. Female students replied 100% with no.

What can these results, spontaneous and instinctive behaviors tell us? We could argue that the neoclassical economic model is a male model, mainly focused on the immediate and short term, matching the male instinct. This short-term rational of men is disastrous for our planet.

According to John Gray, women have tried one-night-stands, but they know that one-night-stands want make women happy. According to an American study, women in general refuse offers for one-night-stands, because women consider themselves more intelligent and sexually smarter than men.

Not having one-night-stands does not affect women’s self-confidence. According to the American psychology professor Marta Meana, men base their self-confidence on how fast and with how many different women they can have sex. Women build their self-confidence in being admired by men, in clubs and lounges. Women dress smart and sexy, let men invite them, adore, admire, flirt with them. While men have to show-off, smart-talk, impress with money and luxury, women can leave at the end of an evening alone or with a female friend, being strongly reinforced in their self-confidence.

Women have patience, they do not have this primitive ego instinct, drive and need for immediate sex and satisfaction. Women can wait, choose those men, that give them comfort and love. Women thus have a sustainable approach. Women have a long-term view and focus of procreation. Women’s instinct is to give life, to care and to safeguard the environment for the new life, they have created. Women are fundamentally long-term and sustainable in their instinct and behavior. Therefore the hypothesis that women must lead humanity to safe planet Earth might well hold true.

It will be challenging for women, to take the lead, since of the dominating, destructive and short-term nature of men. The good news is that there are men, who are convinced about and who want to go the sustainable path, too.